MY PRO BLEM TOO….FOR YEARS!!!!!! STILL AFFECTS ME, SOMETIMES!
I have always wanted compliments but never want to accept them. If I accept the compliment too easily, I am arrogant and therefore should not be complimented. On the other hand, if I do not accept or hesitate too much to accept the compliment, I am just annoying and probably still arrogant.
Through conversation and observation, I have noticed that I am not the only one who struggles with taking compliments. But why is it so difficult to accept compliments? All we have to do is accept it and be thankful. I do not accept compliments because I accept three false beliefs. First, I believe I should reject compliments to prevent pride swelling up in my heart. Second, I believed that I do not deserve compliments. And third, I believe compliments are unattainable expectations in disguise.
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