GUYS. THOSE ONE WAY EXPECTATIONS REALLY JUST HURT YOU. SOME EXPERIENCE TALKING HERE!!!
It all started with watching a movie together. You put you arm around me and we began to cuddle. It was comfortable, nothing to sexual. I was fine with that.
Then it it became more regular, our routine. Two friends cuddling discussing life ambitions, opinions and troubles. I was fine with that too.
Then it started slowly escalating. Lines were blurred. We started feeling, touching things normal friends don’t do. I wasn’t fine that.
Every time you left, I felt this wave of guilt. I felt violated but at the same time I didn’t do anything to stop it. You continued saying it was fine, “we both enjoy it “was your justification. Maybe it was my fault for encouraging it but I just missed it so much. That feeling of being loved by someone in that way. I missed the feeling. But that doesn’t mean I was okay with this.
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